You cling to people, things, principles, beliefs, habits, situations.
Meanwhile, a WAR is raging inside you. RESTLESSNESS. You are BITTER. And still, you don’t want to see that everything around you — and within you — has burned out.
Your feelings always appear. Perhaps physical symptoms as well by now.
Because you don’t want what is. Because you constantly watch someone else’s life. You BLAME others.
You waste YOUR time and YOUR energy on this.
What the other person is doing, what they think, what would be better for them, why they do it this way or that way… familiar?
Do you deal with yourself?
Do you observe where you direct your thoughts?
What would be good for you?
What do you do — and how — for yourself?
Not for your children. Not for your partner.
Not for your friends, not for your relatives, not for the community…
For YOURSELF.
Not for the apartment, the house with a garden, the cleaning, the shopping…
For YOURSELF.
Your unhappiness radiates outward.
Your environment mirrors it.
Your body signals. With symptoms it draws your attention back to yourself.
You choose suffering — and you still don’t take a step?
If YOU don’t want it, there will be no change.
As long as you place everything and everyone before yourself in your life, the symptoms will remain.
Even stronger symptoms (physical pain, debts, loneliness…)
(Who doesn’t want their life to change — it simply doesn’t hurt enough yet.)
To make it different, you must first notice what is.
Inside you. Understand it. Feel it. Also in your body.
Because knowing, understanding is not enough.
That is only the first step. The recognition.
YOU are much more than what you see or can imagine.
If you are not living the life you long for, you have the possibility to change it.
Time? Yes.
Energy? Yes.
If you don’t invest in yourself — in your own growth — why would it be important to anyone else?
If it isn’t even important to you?
It is nobody’s task to save you or fix your life!!!
I know. Alone it doesn’t work. It didn’t work for me either.
But if you truly want it, you will feel where that hand is — the one that takes yours and walks with you until you can see and experience what a wonderful human being you are, what power is in your hands, and that happiness was always here.
You don’t need to search anymore.
One day — you simply live it.
If you feel that you would like to experience the reality behind your present reality with me, then contact me in a private message!
Everything you need is already within you.
You — diamond.
With love: Ildikó
