Living alone inside a relationship is the result of a decision.
A relationship is called a partnership for a reason: you are meant to be in unity with your partner, your companion.
In the ideal case, love is the reason for being together—not the children, not the shared property that keeps two “housemates” tied together.
Yet many people choose this form of prison.
Status and social approval become more important than the human being himself.
For the ego, it is almost incomprehensible when overflowing divine love touches it.
The ego is so occupied with the outside world and with pleasing it that it willingly throws its own soul onto the pyre.
And then it wanders like a soulless figure inside a house that is not a home.
But a human being longs for real feelings, because we are not made only of ego, and because we want to be happy.
And when we are not, we often don’t know why.
Because we refuse to see.
The mind, the ego, always finds explanations.
It explains its own cowardice with numbers.
Because it is afraid to love.
A vicious circle.
The way out is to quiet the mind.
Then you will feel what your path is.
The universe does not hesitate these days.
It sharply illuminates the difference between loving with the heart and “receiving crumbs” from conditions born in the mind.
The era of tactics, manipulation, and control is over.
The choice is yours.
You can stay, and every night the empty walls will stare back at you —
or you can decide despite your fears.
And choose yourself.
And simply let your heart go freely where it longs to be.
Call me if you have decided for yourself.
See? The whole world is right there.
I will walk with you.
Ildikó
